Have you ever felt as if you were a third wheel even when you've been in a relationship for over 3 years?
I have a friend, and this friend is currently engaged. She's on 7 months older than I am. Problem is, her fiance did not attend UNI last semester. So, we were both in the same boat where our significant others weren't with us etc etc...
This semester her fiance is living on campus and in currently enrolled at UNI. He moved his computer and everything but his bed into her room. Now, he comes over after his class (if he goes) and will be in there all day until approximately 11 or midnight. I no longer am able to spend any time with her nor do anything with her without him coming along too. He has stated on multiple accounts that he is always right. She won't argue with him and she won't disagree with him. If she does disagree with him with something he says, she'll come to me and tell me about it but she won't ever mention it to him. We were going to go to a makeup party her mom was throwing this weekend. I didn't end up going because her fiance wanted to leave at 8 am (the party was at 3 pm) and after the party they ended up going out to eat with his parents. Had I been along, it would have been extremely uncomfortable. That is why I'm glad I didn't go.
When it comes to weekends, he sleeps there. He'll spend the night thursday, friday, and saturday. I no longer have a weekend life other than staying in my room. I mean, who honestly would want to be a third wheel every single weekend if you had the option not to be! I don't know if anyone has ever felt being a third wheel while in a relationship. But if you have, I know you know it stinks and it is not pleasant to be in that position.
Melissa
